Coloured parts writing in their journals around a table and glowing lantern

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  • The Uncertainty Meter

    The Uncertainty Meter

    I came across one of the most interesting ideas recently from Sarah Bergenfield speaking about the neuroscience of uncertainty. It’s not a new idea she is putting forward, but no less important…

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  • Not Finishing the Quest

    Not Finishing the Quest

    I do worry that I am not doing more with my life. Not more in the way the world usually means it. Not more money. Not more achievements. Not more status. There…

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  • If there is no problem with the problem

    If there is no problem with the problem

    Fear wants to know. What happens when we stop trying to solve everything? There is so much to be afraid of — or is there? I feel myself tremendously impacted by the…

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  • Searching for Purpose

    Searching for Purpose

    We had our neighbours over this week. They come from a very different cultural world to ours — they are Zulu. I don’t even know where to begin speaking about cultures other…

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  • The Embodied Dreamer

    The Embodied Dreamer

    If you’re anything like me, you may feel tired, weary, or even afraid to dream. Disappointments and broken promises — from ourselves or from others — can leave parts of us that…

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  • How to Spot Personality on Holiday

    How to Spot Personality on Holiday

    Want to know someone’s (or more importantly, your own!) personality pattern?Watch them on holiday. When structure drops away, patterns show themselves—how we rest, control, avoid, pursue, organise, or disappear. Personality becomes especially…

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